Boinski
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Tuesday, 10th of August 2010 09:16:23 AM
My boyfriend and l got into an arguement one evening after we both got off
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of work. We were at his house and l left because l was mad. The arguement
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continued via phone conversations and text messages after l left. l went
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to a friends house to vent and my friend had gotten a hold of my phone and
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the two of them were arguing. They were threatening to damage and hurt each
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other, each others families, family members, houses, cars, etc. So by the
end of the night l got those two to calm down by saying if neither of you
do anything to each other then the other wo not retaliate so chill. />
Next day my boyfriend and l had worked through the arguement we
had and resolved it. We were all good again. So l went to his house where
he is staying. His older brother owns the house but is renting it out to
their older sister and she let my boyfriend stay with them. l was invited
in by my boyfriend and so we went to his room and were laying down
watching tv. Out of nowhere l hear my car alarm going off so l get up to
go see what was going on with my car and my boyfriend came with me. We
went through the garage, so when the garage door went up we saw his sister
and her boyfriend out there. Immediately she started talking sh!t to me
saying how could l have said that about their family and how could l let
that happen. l did not say anything about their family in the first place.
That happened between my boyfriend and my friend the previous day but she
continued to blame me for it. l walk past them and go to my car and l see
my front windshield was broken and then l see the brick laying on the
ground. So l pick up the brick to get it away from my car. This whole time
she is running her mouth to me, cussing me out and threatening to kick my
a$$ and so forth. She broke my windshield for something l did not say and
that happened between her brother (my boyfriend) and my friend. So she
threatened to kick my a$$ again and l called her out on it telling her to
act on her threat. So she set her purse down and came walking toward me.
She grabbed my shirt and my pony tail and had a hold of me that way. Her
hands physically touched me first and were hurting me first so l then
grabbed her pony tail back with my left hand. This whole time l still had
the brick in my right hand from when l picked it up off the floor to get
it away from my car. Anyways, her and l had each others hair and were all
over the street like that. (l know l know, typical girl fight) So outta
nowhere her boyfriend comes up and punches me, l hold my right arm and
hand up in the air so it could block my face. So bam he hits me again and
thats when the brick was knocked outta my possession and hits her in the
face and then hits the ground. This whole time my boyfriend was in the
middle of us trying to get us off of each other and when he saw her
boyfriend hit me, he immediately got him away from me. The brick hitting
her kinda fazed her and thats when she let go of me. That is when l called
the police is when l was free outta the mess. The cops came and cited both
of us. She got cited for assault and criminal damage and l got cited for
assault because she said l hit her on purpose with the brick. l really did
not hit her on purpose though. It was knocked outta my possession when her
boyfriend was hitting me.
Now we have to go to court this
coming Monday the 17th and I am afraid of what is going to happen. What
could happen in court? There are 2 stories that will be told. My boyfriend
and l have the truth and she and her boyfriend are going to lie because
they already did to the police. l really am afraid of going to jail for
doing nothing wrong or on purpose.
This girl has threatened
their other brother is girlfriend before also. She thinks everyone should
be afraid of her because shes the oldest and she does not have the right
to threaten every girl her brother is wanna date and be with.
/>Anyone know of this happening to anyone and could tell me what happened?
What could happen? What might happen? Possible consequences?
chenezz
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Wednesday, 11th of August 2010 02:13:12 AM
My take I don't believe you, & neither will a judge they hear
chenezz
stories like yours all the time. I see someone who fought a txt war that
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escalated into property damage & a fight with weapons. The phone belongs
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to you so unless ur ''friend'' is willing to testify under oath in court
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that they made the terroristic threats against ur BF & his family then you
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made those calls as far as the court is concerned.
Why did you tamper with & contaminate the evidence? There was absolutely
no reason for you to touch the brick it had done its damage moving it
wasn't going to protect ur car. You should have ignored her & went back
into the house & called the cops. By ur own admission you called her out
with a brick in ur hand it doesn't matter that you ''didn't mean to'' if
the brick wasn't in ur hand it wouldn't have hit anyone.
The outcome of ur case is based on too many factors to predict an outcome.
You could get probation or you could get jail time a lot of it will depend
on you lawyer & the district attorney.
Curious Cookie
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Thursday, 12th of August 2010 09:39:32 PM
I believe you and I am sorry that this happened. But I don't
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think the courts will believe you at all. Try your best to come up with
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proof that it was your friend texting not you, because she probably won't
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believe you. And they won't believe that the brick was an accident. But
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think hard and try to come up with some kind of evidence or witness. Good
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luck.